Ask yourself why it is you’re willing to feel for someone who isn’t on your level.
Just as important is if you feel pressured into moving too fast physically. You don’t owe anyone a kiss at the end of the night. You sure as hell don’t owe them sex.
Kiss when you feel comfortable. Have sex when you feel safe with the person.
Your pace is your own, and if someone doesn’t respect that, they don’t deserve to be in your life.