11 Pieces Of Dating Advice From ‘He’s Just Not That Into You’ That Still Hold Up Today

As I watched and listened to the advice the guy gave his friend, I realized there actually was some straightforward, practical advice to take away from the movie. I took out my phone and started writing down the things that I wanted to be able to remind myself of the next time I get ghosted after date three, because let’s be honest, it’s probably going to happen another time or two. I also appreciate being able to extrapolate and take something meaningful away from someone else’s work.

Recognizing that a guy (or girl) isn’t that into us is a lesson that most of us need to experience. It is important to know that when someone is not that into us, we shouldn’t chase or fawn over that person. At the end of the day, there are billions of people on this planet. We don’t need to be stuck on one person that isn’t into us, because statistically speaking, there is someone out there who is.