This is what we need to remind ourselves when we meet someone that we want to take an interest in us and doesn’t, is hot and cold, or won’t commit:
1. We are not the exception, we are the rule! (Basically, the rom-coms where the guy realizes the girl was actually The One the whole time is the exception. Recognizing that these situations generally do not come full circle is the rule.)
2. If a guy is treating you like he doesn’t give a shit, he doesn’t give a shit. No exceptions.
3. If a guy gives you his number instead of taking yours, he’s not interested.
4. If a guy wants to see you, he’ll call.
5. If a guy doesn’t call you, he doesn’t want to call you.