5. You haven’t healed the wounds of past relationships.
This is the biggest. The biggest most surefire way to attract an emotionally abusive D-bag is to enter into a relationship while your wounds from the last one are still raw.
In love, you get what you’re a match to. You’re not going to attract a partner who’s whole, happy, and complete if you’re still a financial and emotional wreck.
When we try to move on too soon, we tend to tell the manipulators exactly how to manipulate us. All they have to do is listen to us drone on about how our ex mistreated us and they can do the exact opposite.