1. You have not learned to be your own source of happiness.
You long for love. You crave a relationship. You feel like your life is mostly together, but you’re waiting for that relationship that will drive away the clouds and bring the sunshine. When you find him, you’ll go out more, you’ll start going on trips, and you’ll have more fun.
The biggest lesson I learned being married and divorced was that if you’re not happy single, you’re not happy. Finding a partner that makes you happy, is not the same thing as being a happy person.